The success of a marriage depends on so much more than what meets theMarriage eye. Ancient Vedic astrology studies every aspect of married life that is relevant in today’s modern day society; and therefore ensures that so much that we take for granted is studied thoroughly. While individual efforts towards a happy marriage can never be undermined; and are the very essence of a truly successful marriage, nonetheless if we can foresee how little or how much effort will be put in by both partners into a relationship… won’t the world have fewer divorced couples.
What is the basic mentality of two people; are they intellectually inclined, or more inclined towards family matters; towards social service. Two people could also be quite business minded, and would tend to give money high importance. Some people are basic fighters, whether the situation is social or political. Therefore a match between a person who has an inclination towards social service will find it difficult to get along with a person who gives money high importance.A balance between the type of mentality between a man and a woman is necessary. As a woman is traditionally a caretaker of the family, it is always better if she is seen as being more inclined towards family. This also ensures that ego problems are minimised between two people.
In a relationship a power struggle is often one of the biggest problems. When both man and woman try to be boss of the family unit. If there is continous struggle for power, problems will be many. It is important that the man be head of the family and while a woman can be equal to a man, and this is considered ideal, when a woman has a personality that is more powerful, problems will arise.
Longevity of life with one another
It is important for the long term happiness of two individuals and their family that they are blessed with a long life, and a long married life, so that companionship lasts a life time and the presence of both mother and father is essential for children. Moreover it ensures that no financial or emotional instability comes into married life due to the loss of a partner or the ill health of either one. This point ensures that two people will live a long and healthy life with one another.
Physical habits and its relation sexual compatibility
Every person has a physical nature that is characteristic of that person….some of us are inclined to enjoy cool weather and the outdoors, while some of us are very indoor people and like to be cosy. Some are very adventuourous while some are quite lazy and laid back. If two people have two completely opposite physical characteristics in their personalities, they will find it difficult in the long run to have a sexually compatible relationship. While this is not apparent to many initially in a relationship; but over a course of time, these differences become more prominent.